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Welcome to My World....always keepin it real!

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***Some of the lighting suck.

 Thanks for stepping into my world. Perhaps You will learn whatever it is that You are seeking to find about me.  Let me begin with saying that I am a very laid back person. I have a great sense of humor and I am down to earth. I have limited time and patients for bullsh@t and drama. If You are into the extracurriculum drama then find someone who wants to part take in it with you because I don't. I can be Your best friend or I can be Your worst enemy, in all actuality it is your choice. I treat people how I want to be treated and in return I expect it back.

 My entire philosophy on life is built around and on respect. I respect everyone until I am given a reason not to. I have everything I want and desire out of life, and the biggest lesson that I have learned in life is to be content and keep balance in life.

Watch out for the fake folks who have nothing to offer you in life and I do mean NUTTIN. Remember IF YOU ARE NOT ADDING TO MY LIFE, YOU ARE SUBTRACTING FROM MY LIFE AND THAT DOES NOT EQUAL OUT. Therefore, it will be a plus if I minus You from my life. "What have You done for me lately?" I have noticed that it is almost like a trend for people to try to use You. In essense, they take Your kindness for a weakness. For those people all I can say if You will reap what You sow.

Alway remember "It`s not what you call me, but what I answer."
African Proverb.

Books I`d recommend: "Lies My Teacher Told me" by James Loewen,"The name Negro it`s origin and evil use" by Richard Moore,"All God`s children need traveling shoes" by Maya Angelou. The last book would be the Bible (book of Proverbs). Iyanla Vanzant collections are also great. The Narrative of Frederick Douglass,  Zora Neale Hurston-Their Eyes Were Watching God,  and Wallace Thurman- The Blacker The Berry.

The funniest movies I`ve seen recently: Head of the State and Bringing down the house.

A quote I like: The essence of my existence is soley in me being who I am and loving who I am and what I have become. For I can only exist and live for me and if along the way, I find myself unhappy, I know that I truly know what it is to be happy for I am happy with me and within me.
By:Me-Me S.

Don`t give of yourself until it hurts but give of yourself until it feels good, and it is then that you shall reap what you sow..
By:Me-Me S.inspired by Dr. M. Lopez

NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER.

Some of my heroes: Myself, Tupac,Malcolm X, Betty Shabazz, Sojourner Truth, Elaine Brown, The Black Panther Party, Elaine Brown, Ida B. Wells,Harriet Tubman and Rosa Parks.

I tend to get myself in trouble when I do the roll call thing, so I am not going to do it. Just know that there are a lot of people in my life right now who I love, adore, and appreciate. Many people have made an exit out of my life and others have entered. I am enjoying this new feeling. Many folks are in my life for a reason and whatever it is, it doesn't matter but I am glad that Yall are there.

I must send a special shout out to my "angel"--the love of my life.. You make me so happy....it's unreal. 

My favorite c.d. right now is Tyrese... and no doubt Donell Jones is forever playin in the player....2PAC is definetly coming through, and fa sho Dru Hill...(tell me why they call You xstacey). Also that Next. Anything slow, I love. "Angel" by Angie Perez is me and my love's song.

Update: I can't do my hater list without thanking all the people who have touched my life on some level. There is someone who really made me see so many things this week. They told me the truth and broke it down to the smallest of the smallest...like a particle---they helped me to find what was missing and to understood the misunderstanding within my own mind. They brought back my faith and hope in God above. I've been smiling every since and feeling peace regardless of everything negative that happened this week. They set that fire inside of me and to them I say thank You. We all have angel watching out for us and I have found mine.


****ONE LOVE TO MY HATERS....HATERS FROM COAST TO COAST**** WITHOUT YOU
THERE WOULD BE NO SURVIVAL AND I AM STILL LIVING.....*** Shout out to the hater- NO NEED OF SAYING NAMES..YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
fake members of every greek organization who don`t understand sisterhood or brotherhood.

**I need to update this and believe me YOU hater know who You are and so do I....

I will always rise above my tear,fears, and haters.. like Maya Angelou said, "But still, like dust, I rise."

To forgive is to live to forget is to not hold on, but to hate is to
harbor.

ONE BIG EEEEYIIIIIPPPPPPPPPP TO ALL MY SORORSonly of SIGMA GAMMA RHO
SORORITY, INC.not members..ACE CLUB REPRESENTING TO THE FULLEST.. PRETTY
POODLES PRODUCTIONS 4LIFE. 1922 best year ever. I LOVE MY S IN FRONT OF MY
G, I LOVE MY G IN FRONT OF MY RHO, I LOVE MY SGRHO...EYYYYIP. Saved the
best for last...Rough drafts before the masterpiece and SGRho... is that.

 

 

Like Jay-Z say, Yall don't want it with me. Again the emphasis is I am gonna be real with You, sobe real with me. I've met some cool people out there and some folks that I wish I never met. I realize why some of Yall folks aint happy.....ummmm YOU aint happy with ya self so what can anyone do to make You happy....get it....got it.... NOW COME ON WITH IT....hold up so I can get my baby power. Can't NAN NUTHA do it like me.
Never settle to be second best when You are the best...Never love with doubts, love with trust.....With that in mind, know I can and never will be second to none...believe that.


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Updated: 04-06-03

I don't often get time to update this the way that I should. I am still chillin being happy. I am loving life and living it to the fullest. I can say that with each passing day, my life is filled with more and more happiness. I use to think that I was happy but now I realize the true meaning of happiness and the true meaning of love, being loved, and being in love. I am truly blessed and I thank God for the lessons in life that I have learned that have made me who I am.

This Year (2003) has been filled with love, hope, joy, and happiness. I know that this will be a great year and I am enjoying it thus far. I have learned to let things go and peole who are not beneficial to my well being. Sometimes You learn when to let go and the pains is easier and pretty soon erased. What I realized last week was sometimes some people can't just let go. It's easy to hold on to hurt, pain, bitterness, etc. For those people, all I can say is I am sorry. Not sorry because of the role that I may have played, but sorry that it has effected Your life even now. Things in 2002 will remains in 2002. Yesterday was history, let it go. Move on, I have....sometimes You realize Your life is that much better without the drama.

The question everyone kee wanting to know is if I am single....No. As of 04/05/03@0213am, I started my new relationship with the love of my life. Someone that I can truly say that I am in love with---everything about them. Everything is all sooooooo good.